Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 63rd Edition

elindra SG

Ok new Jive Pad in business Laughing

fudgester SG

*burps* Embarassed

laurence82 SG

fudgie

Embarassed

av98m SG

Fatum, I like you and all, but I find this whole 'I only fuck women I don't want to marry' attitude reprehensible.

Perhaps this is the source of your recent bad karma.

kopiosatu SG

erm, dun think i'll be screwing her either Laughing

fudgester SG

banana

Mad Mad Mad

ShrodingersCat SG

actually it just means that a woman's rules and a man's rules are different.

A man's rules says "hey she says no commitment. Let's have sex and get on with life!"

And women's rules says "ha! let's have sex and get on with the commitment! How can he resist my loving and giving ways?" <<-- often these women are deluded lah. But they exist and get hurt nevertheless.

elindra SG

Ya man Fatum plus how do you knwo those women who you just had casual fun with all not be wifey material

sbst275 SG

aiyah

wat's in a man n woman's life is all diff

laurence82 SG

i dont like commitment

i mean, i may commit to u now but i may not in the future (what am i talking about anyway?)

so therefore i never had any

Crying or Very sad

ShrodingersCat SG

Smile that's rare, but its great.

Fatum SG

it's not this AV ... and remember, that's long ago and far away ? .... I've been a good boy for a long long time .... and never with ex-dearling ....

I didn't con anyone with any falsehoods to get them into bed ... I never pretend to want a long term relationship to get sex ... I'm not predatory in that sense at all ....

in such things, I think there are implicit rules to the "game" ... but some do treat it as a sort of ..... emotional blackmail ? ... Confused

hisoka SG

as i've prob said b4 the stupid sg laws are so skewed towards women that we men could be in trouble too easily

tare SG

it's true... not just woman, man alike... if u can't play by the rule, dun join the game...

but i have tis theory abt guys only wanting ONS... 1st time prob the gal is high on alcohol/drugs, ur performance doesn't matter... but if go for 2nd time, she'll prob be sober tis time! Twisted Evil

hisoka SG

well, its not like the women were conned. they went into it readily and willingly with no promises.

ShrodingersCat SG

I think you don't understand that if a woman is really attracted to you, some would try ALL MEANS to change your heart.

Some even think that the fact you want to have sex with them means you are attracted at SOME level, therefore can't be that difficult right?

The only way you can play this game is to have sex with women that are COMPLETELY not attracted to you. Then they won't want to have sex with you, see?

heh heh heh.

Fatum SG

it's not the "act" per se ... but the circumstances of how we met ..... I don't think like : "awww, this woman jumped into bed with me, she's not wifey material" ....

Confused

laurence82 SG

huh? realli ah?

Fatum SG

Mad ....

av98m SG

the problem is that women can change their minds after having sex. or they read your signals wrong.

I guess the solution is to keep your pants on eh Laughing